know what is the best way to get along?
In my opinion, is arguing.
Yes, that's it, I am convinced that: "Love is not beautiful if it is not litigarello.
Arguing comes out what is wrong and that hatching inside.
Arguing know what the other thinks, you put on the table what I'm sorry, and you can understand what we do that our partner does not like.
BUT SHOULD 'BE VERY CAREFUL ... because you can fight well and fight evil.
We quarrel, well if you intend to better understand each other and find solutions and agreements.
And you can fight evil and to raise barriers to hurt at times insurmountable.
To argue well you should not raise your voice, listen to the other, trying to understand his point of view and be ready and determined to reach an agreement.
To fight evil enough to say two words: "always" and "never" and always be on the defensive, without admitting to be wrong, at least sometimes.
There is a couple who has never had a fight.
who says he always went smooth and in agreement with the wife or husband tells me the right one.
course or has lost his memory or not telling the truth.
From there you can not escape!
N on you in a couple there are differences of opinion, the disagreements or misunderstandings.
So fight may be a way to reach an agreement, even if it is the worst way to us.
But is not the end of the world, provided it does not become a habit, and as long as there is between the two litigants a foundation of true love and determination to not get hurt.
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